giving reasons for every solution,
running away from the truth and being optimistic,
not being there when they need u,
knowing your own flaws yet nothing done,
blames on me, for what again?
oh i forgot,
what a wonderful make up of a face called life,
nothing literally means lies,
something does'nt mean truth,
am i attarcting this to myself?
is it my fault that i tend to think and attract?
what can u do when things happen in such and being possitive doesnt put a plus point to it?
how can u answer me, when u don't even know what is the question?
enough! thats all...not to say i can't take it but it just too bad i got used it!
Friday, 1 July 2011
Sunday, 19 June 2011
5 regrets people have on their Deatbeds!
Ms. Bronnie Ware has worked with the dying for many years. She recently detailed the top 5 regrets that people have on their deathbed
While we are all bound to have some regrets in life, here are the top 5.
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5.I wish that I had let myself be happier.
While we are all bound to have some regrets in life, here are the top 5.
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5.I wish that I had let myself be happier.
Saturday, 18 June 2011
Listen for Love..=)
There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel.
For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you." So we try to communicate the idea in other words. We say 'take care' or 'don't drive too fast' or 'be good.' But really, these are just other ways of saying 'I love you,' 'you are important to me,' 'I care what happens to you,' 'I don't want you to get hurt.'
We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don't say. And yet, because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted. Therefore, we have to LISTEN FOR LOVE in the words that people are saying to us.
Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying things is even more important. A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments which are expressed sincerely. An impulsive hug says I LOVE YOU even though the words might be saying very different. Any expression of a person's concern for another says I love you. Sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that contains. But it is often there, beneath the surface. A mother may nag her son constantly about his grades or cleaning his room. The son may hear only the nagging, but if he listens carefully, he will hear the love underneath the nagging. His mother wants him to do well, to be successful. Her concern and love for her son unfortunately emerge in her nagging. But it is love all the same. A daughter comes home way past her curfew, and her father confronts her with angry words. The daughter may hear only the anger, but if she listen carefully, she will hear the love under the anger. "I was worried about you," the father is saying. 'Because I care about you and I love you. You are important to me.' We say I love you in many ways - with birthday gifts, and little notes, with smiles and sometimes with tears.
Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even brusquely. We show our love sometimes by impulsiveness. Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express. The problem in listening for love is that we don't always understand the language of love which the other person is using. A girl may use tears or emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to be talking his language. Thus, we have to force ourselves to really listen for love.
The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other. They hear the words, but they don't listen to the actions that accompany the words or the expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding. They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry. We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realize.
Listen for love and we will find that the world is a very loving place, after all. LOVE is a happy thing. It makes us laugh. It makes us sing. It makes us sad. It makes us cry. It makes us seek the reason why. It makes us take. It makes us give. Above all else it makes us LIVE. It is not the presence or absence of people that makes the difference because a person need not be lonely even if he is alone. Sometimes it is good to be alone. But that does not make us lonely. It is not a matter of being present WITH someone. It is a matter of being present TO someone. If you love someone, tell them. Always to say what you mean. Never be afraid to express yourself. Seize the day and have no regrets. The difference between expressing love and having regrets is that the regrets may stay around.
For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you." So we try to communicate the idea in other words. We say 'take care' or 'don't drive too fast' or 'be good.' But really, these are just other ways of saying 'I love you,' 'you are important to me,' 'I care what happens to you,' 'I don't want you to get hurt.'
We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don't say. And yet, because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted. Therefore, we have to LISTEN FOR LOVE in the words that people are saying to us.
Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying things is even more important. A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments which are expressed sincerely. An impulsive hug says I LOVE YOU even though the words might be saying very different. Any expression of a person's concern for another says I love you. Sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that contains. But it is often there, beneath the surface. A mother may nag her son constantly about his grades or cleaning his room. The son may hear only the nagging, but if he listens carefully, he will hear the love underneath the nagging. His mother wants him to do well, to be successful. Her concern and love for her son unfortunately emerge in her nagging. But it is love all the same. A daughter comes home way past her curfew, and her father confronts her with angry words. The daughter may hear only the anger, but if she listen carefully, she will hear the love under the anger. "I was worried about you," the father is saying. 'Because I care about you and I love you. You are important to me.' We say I love you in many ways - with birthday gifts, and little notes, with smiles and sometimes with tears.
Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even brusquely. We show our love sometimes by impulsiveness. Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express. The problem in listening for love is that we don't always understand the language of love which the other person is using. A girl may use tears or emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to be talking his language. Thus, we have to force ourselves to really listen for love.
The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other. They hear the words, but they don't listen to the actions that accompany the words or the expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding. They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry. We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realize.
Listen for love and we will find that the world is a very loving place, after all. LOVE is a happy thing. It makes us laugh. It makes us sing. It makes us sad. It makes us cry. It makes us seek the reason why. It makes us take. It makes us give. Above all else it makes us LIVE. It is not the presence or absence of people that makes the difference because a person need not be lonely even if he is alone. Sometimes it is good to be alone. But that does not make us lonely. It is not a matter of being present WITH someone. It is a matter of being present TO someone. If you love someone, tell them. Always to say what you mean. Never be afraid to express yourself. Seize the day and have no regrets. The difference between expressing love and having regrets is that the regrets may stay around.
Friday, 17 June 2011
Fun Facts about Malaysia!...=)
1. Do u know that "TUN" is the most senior federal title and there can be no more than 25 living recipients at any one time. Thats’s great achievement Tun Mahathir!
2.Malaysia has 65,877 km of highway. This is more than the Earth's circumference of 40,075 km. WOW!
3. Do u know that the spiritual pop group Raihan holds the record for the best-selling local album, 700,000 units of their Puji-Pujianalbum in 1996. Congratulation guys! I will always be ur fans!
4. Who said we don’t have Jewish grave here? Of coz we have. The country's only Jewish cemetery is in Penang, in Jalan Zainal Abidin, with 120 graves!
5. Do u know what is the best jet fighter in the world? Of coz la not Malaysia’s Sukhoi 30-MKM, but F-22 Raptor by Lockheed Martin! They are crazy men! Their jet not only can outfly and outrun any other plane in the world, this plane can do so while remaining virtually unseen!
6. When u asked ‘mat saleh’ to comment about Malaysia, they will probably say this, “most of the coffees and teas are sweetened with TONS of sugar”.
7. Never ask a Malaysian how is his business or studies. Standard response: OK la. Immediately, switch to u and asks " So, I see u put on weight. Goodlah u!
8. Malaysians only call themselves Malaysians when they are outside the country, otherwise they call themselves Chinese, Indians, Malays & "dan lain-lain"
9. The Kelantan Menteri Besar Tuan Guru Datuk Nik Abdul Aziz Nik Mat was ranked at 42 from 500 most influential muslims worldwide. He is the only Malaysian-Muslims listed in top 50, which means he is the MOST INFLUENTIAL MUSLIM IN MALAYSIA. Impressive!
10. We bought 12 Eurocopters for RM2.317 billion, while Brazil bought the same 50 units of Eurocopter, for US$1.2 billion (RM4.14 billion). U do the math.
11. Malay people love to read Metro, Mastika, URTV, Mangga, while Non-Malays love to read The Edge, Personal Money, The Malaysian Reserve.
12. Proton is a national car company that we should protect and help them. That’s why here we have to pay RM 66,799.97 for Proton Waja, while at Saudi they can get Proton Waja for only RM35,673. We heart Proton!
13. Malaysian people are funny because we bought 2 submarines (Scorpene) for 3.4 billions ringgit, and it cannot even dive! But it’s okay, it can be turn to be ‘sampan’.
14. Malay love to buy, Chinese love to sell.
15. Malaysian people are very kind where now everyone pun wants to become a beggar because it’s so easy to ask people for money.
thanx to UNIVERSAL blogger
2.Malaysia has 65,877 km of highway. This is more than the Earth's circumference of 40,075 km. WOW!
3. Do u know that the spiritual pop group Raihan holds the record for the best-selling local album, 700,000 units of their Puji-Pujianalbum in 1996. Congratulation guys! I will always be ur fans!
4. Who said we don’t have Jewish grave here? Of coz we have. The country's only Jewish cemetery is in Penang, in Jalan Zainal Abidin, with 120 graves!
5. Do u know what is the best jet fighter in the world? Of coz la not Malaysia’s Sukhoi 30-MKM, but F-22 Raptor by Lockheed Martin! They are crazy men! Their jet not only can outfly and outrun any other plane in the world, this plane can do so while remaining virtually unseen!
6. When u asked ‘mat saleh’ to comment about Malaysia, they will probably say this, “most of the coffees and teas are sweetened with TONS of sugar”.
7. Never ask a Malaysian how is his business or studies. Standard response: OK la. Immediately, switch to u and asks " So, I see u put on weight. Goodlah u!
8. Malaysians only call themselves Malaysians when they are outside the country, otherwise they call themselves Chinese, Indians, Malays & "dan lain-lain"
9. The Kelantan Menteri Besar Tuan Guru Datuk Nik Abdul Aziz Nik Mat was ranked at 42 from 500 most influential muslims worldwide. He is the only Malaysian-Muslims listed in top 50, which means he is the MOST INFLUENTIAL MUSLIM IN MALAYSIA. Impressive!
10. We bought 12 Eurocopters for RM2.317 billion, while Brazil bought the same 50 units of Eurocopter, for US$1.2 billion (RM4.14 billion). U do the math.
11. Malay people love to read Metro, Mastika, URTV, Mangga, while Non-Malays love to read The Edge, Personal Money, The Malaysian Reserve.
12. Proton is a national car company that we should protect and help them. That’s why here we have to pay RM 66,799.97 for Proton Waja, while at Saudi they can get Proton Waja for only RM35,673. We heart Proton!
13. Malaysian people are funny because we bought 2 submarines (Scorpene) for 3.4 billions ringgit, and it cannot even dive! But it’s okay, it can be turn to be ‘sampan’.
14. Malay love to buy, Chinese love to sell.
15. Malaysian people are very kind where now everyone pun wants to become a beggar because it’s so easy to ask people for money.
thanx to UNIVERSAL blogger
Saturday, 21 May 2011
A journey?
A journey started!
as a journey started years back for all the animals in the forest were happy with all they have got, it was'nt perfect but it was enough for everyone,
a satisfactory life is always better than a perfect one as no one got it perfect anyway,
as the lions had their food and the snakes had theirs, there was'nt a prey predator relationship, they shared friendship instead,
can u assume lions and snakes are friends, even in a fictional story?
a story begun and went on, many other characters came in and went out of the story, no one was perfectly permanent, each thought they were permanant but no one got it at the end!
~sometimes out of frustration or legacy, u just want something to be permanent, unfortunately nothing remains permanent?!
the lions thought they are the king but the deers thought so as well as they are not hunt by the lions,
confusing?? yea mee too..=P
assumption kills everyone, arrogance and the power to control never brings the best to anyone,
there lived a rabbit that needed a companion, not realizing its in a forest, rabbit got a snake and a lion as its friends..
friends, hard to define it becouse as time goes on u realize most just says it as one but doesnt mean it! but some does'nt say it often but means it hard!
a parrot flew towards the rabbit and said as an advise to move away from the snake and the lion as they were planning to eat it up one day or another.
rabbit thought to be like the parrot to be able to move freely and happily and meet new animals....
listening to the advise of a parrot,it went against the lion and the snake....rabbit ran away deep into a forest and met more animals who are leaving by their own...
parrot directed the rabbit to meet a crocodile.....
poor rabbit thought the crocodile accepted it as a friend too as the lion and the snake did! as soon as the rabbit wished the crocodile...the crocodile snaped open and cought the rabbit's leg....parrot laughed at the rabbit asking,'what made u to trust me? the lion? the snake? and now the crocodile as a friend?' is it becouse the lion is the king? is it becouse I can fly? is it becouse the crocodile is big or is it becouse the snake is poisonous?...u did find a reason to be with us..did'nt u?
reasons? assumptions? truth? false? real? fake? no one can actually define it..becouse we're all actors who are thought well to act!
as a journey started years back for all the animals in the forest were happy with all they have got, it was'nt perfect but it was enough for everyone,
a satisfactory life is always better than a perfect one as no one got it perfect anyway,
as the lions had their food and the snakes had theirs, there was'nt a prey predator relationship, they shared friendship instead,
can u assume lions and snakes are friends, even in a fictional story?
a story begun and went on, many other characters came in and went out of the story, no one was perfectly permanent, each thought they were permanant but no one got it at the end!
~sometimes out of frustration or legacy, u just want something to be permanent, unfortunately nothing remains permanent?!
the lions thought they are the king but the deers thought so as well as they are not hunt by the lions,
confusing?? yea mee too..=P
assumption kills everyone, arrogance and the power to control never brings the best to anyone,
there lived a rabbit that needed a companion, not realizing its in a forest, rabbit got a snake and a lion as its friends..
friends, hard to define it becouse as time goes on u realize most just says it as one but doesnt mean it! but some does'nt say it often but means it hard!
a parrot flew towards the rabbit and said as an advise to move away from the snake and the lion as they were planning to eat it up one day or another.
rabbit thought to be like the parrot to be able to move freely and happily and meet new animals....
listening to the advise of a parrot,it went against the lion and the snake....rabbit ran away deep into a forest and met more animals who are leaving by their own...
parrot directed the rabbit to meet a crocodile.....
poor rabbit thought the crocodile accepted it as a friend too as the lion and the snake did! as soon as the rabbit wished the crocodile...the crocodile snaped open and cought the rabbit's leg....parrot laughed at the rabbit asking,'what made u to trust me? the lion? the snake? and now the crocodile as a friend?' is it becouse the lion is the king? is it becouse I can fly? is it becouse the crocodile is big or is it becouse the snake is poisonous?...u did find a reason to be with us..did'nt u?
reasons? assumptions? truth? false? real? fake? no one can actually define it..becouse we're all actors who are thought well to act!
Wednesday, 11 May 2011
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life not all about satisfying what u need or want,
life is not only about how u appear or prevail urself,
life is not about how much u earn or how much u gain,
its more than the thought to atleast do something to the nation before u leave,
nation does not mean the crowd u see, its at least to make a difference in the life of at least 1 person!
life is not only about how u appear or prevail urself,
life is not about how much u earn or how much u gain,
its more than the thought to atleast do something to the nation before u leave,
nation does not mean the crowd u see, its at least to make a difference in the life of at least 1 person!
Monday, 25 April 2011
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